I had an issue with one of my kids in that he asks for help before even trying to do the work himself. When I was trying to get dinner ready, make phone calls, housework done, etc.. I had to come up with a solution. So, I came up with the:
BEFORE YOU ASK FOR HELP POLICY
1. Read the directions.
2. Read the question(s).
3. Find the subject matter in your text book.
4. Read the subject matter in your text book.
5. Think of your best guess as to what the answer might be.
6. Be prepared to show what you’ve read, what information you have, and your best guess.
7. Then ask.
8. If I can’t help right away, go to the next question: Don’t waste time.
I hope this helps you as it does for me. -Krisgo
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