Category: Communicate it

Money Etiquitte Issues

Problem: Friends or coworkers who need to reimburse you for a group gift keep saying, “Yeah, I’ll get that to you,” and never do. What should you do?

Solution: Send an e-mail reminding everyone that you’re collecting and would appreciate it if they’d get their share to you by a specific date, suggests Susan Hackley, the managing director of the Program on Negotiation at Harvard Law School. “If people still haven’t paid within a week, another pleasant e-mail―appreciatively noting the names of those who have paid―is perfectly appropriate,” says Hackley. If only one or two people haven’t chipped in yet, talk to them privately, says Spizman. “Ask if they sent it and by chance you didn’t receive it―don’t be accusatory. They really might have forgotten,” she says. It’s also possible that they’re short of money. In that case, you could compromise and say you’d be willing to accept whatever they can manage. If this puts you in a bind, you might ask some other group members (without revealing intimate details) if they’d consider chipping in a few extra bucks, since the group ran short.

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Teaching Your Kids to be Thankful

Thanksgiving is the perfect time to teach your kids about being thankful. Here are some ideas to teach your children how to appreciate the blessings in their lives.

Giving Thanks Placemats

The goal of this craft is to create a collage filled with drawings and pictures of all the things your children are thankful for. Cut photos from magazines, or print some photos from your computer. Older children can write captions under the photos or draw their own. Be sure to put the child’s name and the year on it.

If you make this collage from two standard letter size pieces of construction paper taped side-by-side, you can take the completed collage to a copy shop when you’re done and have it laminated. It then becomes a placemat that you can use every Thanksgiving for years to come.

Thankful Paper Chain

Another way to remind your children of their blessings is to create a paper chain. This is similar to a regular paper chain – where you cut strips of paper and connect them together as loops, but there’s one difference. You write on the strips of paper before you connect them. Write the things you are thankful for with your children. For instance, “Grandma plays games with me” or “My teacher is nice.” The fun part of this activity is to make the chain as long as possible – showing all your blessings. If you’d like to keep this up during Christmas, just use green and white paper.

Thanksgiving Tree

This is another take on the idea above and works really well if you have several kids in the family. Get each child to trace their hand on yellow, red, or brown construction paper. Cut out the hand shapes and write (or have the child write) what they are thankful for on the hand shape. Cut a tree trunk shape out of brown construction paper. Glue it on a large piece of poster board. Let the kids add their hand shapes as leaves above the tree trunk, turning it into a beautiful fall colored tree.

Thankful Book

This idea is similar to the others, except it’s more of a keepsake. Purchase a photo album or scrapbook kit and make a “blessings” theme. Add photos of loved ones, including stories about why they are special to you. Also, include pages of your favorite foods, favorite stories, favorite movies and all the other things that make you happy. Any time your kids feel down, you can open your blessing book to see all the reasons you have to be happy – and thankful for the blessings in your life.

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Message Board

Simply put decorative paper into a frame. Use a dry-erase marker on the glass to get your message across!  Another tip: Use a mirror you already own, like the bathroom one for messages too. Dry-erase markers just wipe right off!

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